Truly Voyage's Vietnam Solo Travel Guide for Ladies

If you are reading this and feeling a tight knot in your stomach, take a deep breath. Seriously, do it right now.

It is completely normal to feel nervous. You are about to fly to a country that is loud, colorful, and drastically different from home. When I first planned my trip to Vietnam, I had the exact same worries. I spent nights doom-scrolling forums, Googling "is Vietnam safe for women" about a hundred times, and imagining worst-case scenarios.

But here is the headline I wish someone had told me back then: Vietnam is statistically one of the safest countries in Southeast Asia for women.

Violent crime against tourists is incredibly rare. You generally don't need to worry about walking home and being physically unsafe in the way you might worry in parts of Europe or the Americas. The "danger" in Vietnam isn't physical harm; it’s usually just confusion, getting annoyed, or paying $2 too much for a coconut.

Phase 1: The Preparation

Anxiety usually comes from the unknown. The best way to kill that anxiety is to remove the variables before you even pack your bag.

The Visa (The Boring But Critical Part)

I have seen so many travelers crying at the airport check-in counter because they messed this up. It is a heartbreaking way to start a trip, so let’s make sure it doesn't happen to you.

Unlike Thailand, where many nationalities get a free pass on arrival, Vietnam usually requires paperwork beforehand. You need to apply for the Official E-Visa at least two weeks in advance. Do not leave this until the last minute.

When you go to the government website, you might hesitate. It looks old, clunky, and frankly, a bit like a site from 1999. You might think, "Is this a scam site?" It’s not. It is just government bureaucracy.

It costs $25 USD and usually takes 3 to 5 business days to process (not counting Saturday and Sunday)

⚠️A critical tip: When you fill out your name, write it exactly as it appears in the machine-readable zone at the bottom of your passport. If you have a middle name, include it. If you mess up one letter, they can deny you boarding.

Once you get the email approval, print two paper copies. Keep one in your passport and one in the bottom of your backpack. Phone batteries die, but paper is forever.

The "Ladies Essentials" Packing Strategy

You can buy almost anything in Vietnam, but there are specific "girl things" that are either expensive or frustratingly hard to find.

1. The Period Situation: This is a major pain point. Tampons are surprisingly elusive outside of big international supermarkets in major cities like Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh City. The local preference is pads. If you use tampons, bring enough supply for your entire trip to save yourself a frantic scavenger hunt. If you use a menstrual cup, bring a small bottle of potable water to rinse it, as tap water isn't drinkable.

2. Travel Dress Code: Vietnam is humid, think "air-you-can-chew" humid. You want breathable fabrics like linen or cotton. But how much skin is too much?

• General Rule: Vietnam is surprisingly chill about legs. You will see local women wearing shorts. However, they are much more conservative about cleavage.
• The Strategy: Showing leg is usually fine; showing deep cleavage draws a lot of stares.
• Temple Mode: When you visit temples, you must cover your shoulders and knees.
• The Hack: Do not wear long pants all day in 95-degree heat. Instead, pack a lightweight sarong in your purse. When you hit a temple, wrap it around your waist like a skirt. It’s quick, it's modest, and you can take it off the second you leave.

3. Skincare & Hygiene

• The Pollution: The cities can be dusty. Bring a good cleanser and facial mist.
• Hair: If you plan on taking motorbike taxis (which you should!), you will be wearing a helmet that hundreds of other people have worn. I recommend carrying a thin silk scarf or bandana to wrap around your hair before putting the helmet on. It saves your hair from "helmet hair" and keeps things hygienic.

Maintain 24/7 Internet Access

Before you leave the airport, get a local SIM card (Vinaphone or Viettel are best). It costs about $10-15 for unlimited data.

Once you have data, download the Grab or Xanh SM app immediately.

Grab and Xanh SM are the Uber of Southeast Asia, and it is the single most important tool for your safety.

• Why it protects you: You don't need to haggle with a driver in a dark alley. You don't need to explain your address. The app tracks your ride.
• Company-affiliated drivers: You can order a motorbike taxi on the app! It is half the price of a car and much faster in traffic. It is terrifying the first time, but incredibly fun. Just hold onto the back handle, not the driver!

Phase 2: On The Ground – What to Expect

1. The Traffic: It’s a River, Not a War

Let me paint a picture for you. You step out of your hotel. You need to get to the spa across the street. But between you and the massage is a wall of 500 motorbikes, honking and weaving.

It looks terrifying. Your instinct will be to freeze.

But here is the secret: Think of it like a river. The traffic flows around obstacles. If you are the obstacle, you need to be predictable.

• How to cross: Step off the curb. Walk at a slow, steady pace. Do not run. Do not stop. And definitely do not step backward.
• The "Human Shield" Trick: If you are too scared (we've all been there), wait for a local to cross. Stand next to her, on the side away from the traffic, and shadow their movements. 

2. The "Are You Married?" Question

You will get asked this constantly. By taxi drivers, by street vendors, by hotel staff.

• The Context: In the West, this can feel invasive. In Vietnam, it is just standard small talk, like asking about the weather. They are trying to place you in the social hierarchy. Unlike English, which has a universal "You," Vietnamese requires speakers to choose a specific pronoun based on the other person's age, gender, and social status relative to them.
• Establishing the "Rank": If you are older, you might be an Anh (older brother) or Chị (older sister). If you are married and have children, your status "matures" in the eyes of the speaker.
• Titles: Knowing your marital status helps the speaker decide which honorific to use. Being married often signals a transition into full adulthood, which commands a different level of respect than being a "young, single person."
• The Lie: If you don't want to get into it, or if a man is asking and you feel uncomfortable, just say, "Yes, my husband is meeting me later." It is an easy, respectable way to end the conversation. 

3. The Plastic Stool Dining Experience

Dining alone in a Western restaurant can feel isolating. In Vietnam, it is the norm. Street food culture is communal.

Imagine walking up to a stall with tiny red plastic stools. You sit down, and you are practically shoulder-to-shoulder with a local grandmother. No one is judging you for eating alone because they are too busy slurping their Pho.

Hygiene Tip: When you sit down, you might see a small bowl of limes and chili. A local trick is to squeeze a bit of lime juice onto your chopsticks and wipe them with a napkin before you eat. The acid helps clean them, and it makes you look like a seasoned pro.

4. The Sisterhood

Here is a comforting fact that surprised me: Vietnamese tourism is powered by A LOT of ladies.

From the moment you land, you will notice that the majority of hotel managers, travel agents, and tour operators are women. Not only do they speak incredible, fluent English, but there is also an instant sense of connection.

If you ever feel lost or unsure, look for a woman working at a travel desk or reception. In my experience, they go above and beyond to help a fellow female traveler. It makes the whole trip feel less like you are navigating a foreign country alone and more like you have local sisters looking out for you along the way.

Phase 3: Things You Should Watch Out For

I want you to be safe, not paranoid. Vietnam requires "big city" street smarts.

The Drive-by Snatch

This is the most common crime travelers face, specifically in Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon). Thieves on motorbikes sometimes grab bags from pedestrians.

• The Fix: Leave the cute shoulder tote at home. Wear a crossbody bag that zips shut.
• Crucial Detail: Wear the bag so the actual pouch is on your stomach or hip, and the strap is not on the side of the road. If a bike grabs it, you don't want to be pulled into traffic.

The "Friendly" Stranger Trap

Vietnam is friendly, but usually, locals are shy of foreigners. If you are walking near a tourist spot (like Hoan Kiem Lake) and a confident stranger approaches you speaking perfect English, inviting you to a "local tea ceremony" or "card game," be very careful.

• The Scam: You will be taken to a location and pressured to gamble or pay hundreds of dollars for tea.
• The Rule: If the interaction happens naturally (like chatting at a cafe), it is likely real. If someone intercepts you on the street and tries to move you to a second location, it is a scam. It is okay to be rude. Just say "No" and keep walking.

Phase 4: Solo Female Specifics

Navigating Night Travel

Vietnam is long and thin, so you will likely take sleeper buses or trains.

Sleeper Buses: These are huge buses with bunk beds.

• The "Cabin" Upgrade: Spend the extra $5 for a "Limousine" or "Cabin" bus. These give you a private pod with a curtain. As a solo woman, having a curtain gives you the privacy to sleep without worrying about your belongings or people looking at you.
• Standard Bus: If you take a standard bus, book a top bunk. It feels safer because people aren't walking past your head constantly, and no one can "accidentally" bump into you while walking down the aisle.

Accommodation: Female-Only Dorms

Erase the image of dirty youth hostels. Vietnam has "poshtels" (posh hostels) that are cleaner than some hotels.

• Best Practice: Look for hostels that offer "Female Only" dorms. You get the social aspect of a hostel (instant dinner buddies!) but the safety and cleanliness of a female-only space.
• Loneliness Cure: If you feel lonely, sit in the common room for 20 minutes without your phone. Someone will talk to you.

"Bum Guns" and Bathroom Anxiety

• Western vs. Squat: Most hotels and cafes have Western toilets. However, at bus stops or in rural areas, you might find squat toilets.
• The Bum Gun: You will see a spray nozzle next to the toilet. This is a bidet. It is hygienic and great, but it leaves you wet.
• The Kit: always carry a small pack of tissues and hand sanitizer in your purse. Public restrooms rarely have toilet paper.

Final Words of Encouragement

The hardest part of a solo trip to Vietnam is not the flight, the visa, or the language barrier. The hardest part is the taxi ride to the airport in your home country. That is when the "what ifs" are the loudest.

But I promise you this: Once you land, the warm tropical air hits you, and you eat your first Banh Mi for 50 cents, the fear vanishes. You will realize you are stronger and more capable than you thought.

Trust your gut. Be smart with your bag. But mostly, enjoy the freedom. You are going to have the best time.